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Story 15
From
On-line Chat to the Wedding
Dear Andrea!
I've read the internet love
stories both in the Internet Kalauz magazine and on the web. They
prompted me to want to write and share our own story which – don't be surprised
- but it began no less than 5 years ago, and is still going strong, and
then some…. But I'm saving the best news last, now let me begin in
the beginning, with our meeting.
In those days I worked at
the JATE University in Szeged in the Department of English and had access
to the internet. I've used the IRC before but at that time someone
had unexpectedly greeted me and his first sentence was: ‘Hello you
dear girl!” To which I responded: “How do you know that I'm a dear
girl?”
Anyway, I met a boy right
there on the Internet. He was from Budapest and studied at the mathematical
department of the University of Science (ELTE). Somehow he was different
from the other boys on the net. I was pretty much getting tired of
the fact that I could not carry on a decent conversation with any of them.
We talked a lot and it became obvious that we had a lot in common.
We became more and more impressed with each other as the days and weeks
went by. We ‘met’ almost on a daily basis in the chat and if that
didn't work, then we wrote e-mails. It often happened that we thought
of the same thing, we felt the common tie and that we are important to
one another.
Naturally, after a while
we've exchanged pictures also and both of us liked the looks of the other.
We've talked on the phone a few times and as a next step the situation
had ripened to where we began to think we should meet in person.
A month after our virtual meeting I traveled to Budapest where he waited
for me at the Western train station. This was the first personal
meeting which, although caused both of us plenty of anxiety, was not a
disappointment to either of us, on the contrary. I really liked him
and he seemed to like me. It was terribly cold that day, so much
so that the rose he gave me froze in my hand, but we couldn't really tell
we were so involved with each other. All day we've wondered around,
on Margaret Island and the museum grounds. We had a wonderful time
together, so much so that by evening I've almost missed my train.
There was no doubt in either
of our minds that there will be a continuation. The following week
there was more than the usual amount of communication between us and a
week later he came to see me in Szeged. From then on we met on every
week-end. Our love grew each day and it wasn't too long before we
were planning a future together.
Six
months later we became engaged and the following year in 1996 we were married.
I moved to Budapest and we've lived here since and we are crazy about each
other.
We've not regretted anything.
Our first child is due in March. I wish to all Internet couples
the same joy that we have and are still experiencing.
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